I’ve been getting in to rope a bit more so Mister mentioned that he would let me tie him up; and so I asked if that was permitted and if it was the right thing to do.
Because I am a dominant I shouldn’t let you tie me up?
I don’t know you tell me, is that “protocolly correct” (Yes! It seems I invented my own word)
Yes, with the understanding that you remember your place, and do not to look at it as topping or dominating but as a gift or reward.
which brings me to another concept called topping from the bottom. which is when the submissive tries to take control of a situation, through little actions or suggestions.
so he made it very clear that even though I am tying him up, HE IS STILL IN CONTROL
I don’t think I would ever want to top from the bottom when it comes to him anyway. I’m perfectly happy with my role