Mind Fuck, Release the Psycho within

I was reading a book as usual and one of the chapters was on mind fucking, just reading the words “MIND FUCK” made me very excited because it’s something that I know is right up my alley. I enjoyed it so much I would really love to meet the mind fucker who wrote it, I think he is awesome.

So this is what I have learned:

Number one, the definition of mind fucking is making someone believe something is going on that isn’t really happening; the element of surprise, meaning that the Bottom doesn’t know is not real.

What is so unique about mind fucking is that although we engaged in an alternative lifestyle there are still expectations and rules to follow. “You’re supposed to play Nice, and there’s a lot that you are Not supposed to do” mind fucking can be implemented in different types of play making the scene take an edgier feel But also, mind fuck can sort of be edge play all by itself.

There are a lot of reasons why people would participate, but personality I know that FEAR is what does it for me. Knowing that the person is scared and uncomfortable in a headspace he doesn’t want to be in, questioning his own sanity and mines but most importantly knowing that I was the one to put him there is pleasing to me. Fear is many things; fear is sexy and highly erotic.

TRUST, is an important factor before engaging in any type of play. Just as you would any other scene, both parties assess each other in the negotiation phase. You mentally prepare them by providing enough information to make the bottom less hesitant but leaving enough room for the imagination to run wild.
If they know what is going to happen is NOT A MIND FUCK.

Let their MIND FUCK IT SELF
Sensory deprivation using blind folds is an automatic head trip because the brain uses sight to assess situations
Note: better yet tied them up and blindfold them but before the blindfold put a knife close by so that it’s the last thing that they see.
Only talk the necessary… “How far are you willing to go for me?”
Silence, equals mind fuck, confirm nothing, hold back and let their mind do its work.

Really Good Advice I found:
1. YOU CANT check in with the bottom in a mind fuck “are you okay? Am I raping you hard enough? Is this gun too scary? Should I put it away? Ugh. Scene ruined”
2. If you have time to plan, Have a starting, climax, and ending in mind.
3. You have to be on your toes and be vigilant of you and the bottom.
4. Do Not mind fuck around PHOBIAS… just don’t do it.
5. You will always proceed with aftercare, but something I found interesting was to remove all props or toys used from the scene.
5. Essentially you are acting like a psycho, which I might add is not so hard for most of us to do *smiles… in case the person has a complete FREAKING melt down you proceed to really good advice number 4 and ask them what they NEED and Have them call a person they trust, Basically because a psycho wouldn’t do that.